Wednesday, December 19, 2012

All the boring stuff...

  Here are a few thoughts of mine that I would like to get off of my chest. I am typically a very outspoken person, but I would rather not stir up commotion with any sensitive minds. I have strong opinions and beliefs that I don’t mind debating about with rational, understanding FRIENDS. I am not going to post these on any social media sites because of the backlash of closed-minded, disrespectful people. Enjoy.

 Why is it okay for someone black to say, “ as a black man… blah blah blah; black people this, black people that; She is a strong black woman, etc.” but if a white person says anything about color (even their own) they are discriminating and racist? Double Standards. Why are there scholarships for Hispanics and African Americans? Just for their ethnicity? They grew up without struggle since they grew up in the 90’s when there was no longer segregation. Hmm… Double Standards. Why are there colleges and groups for African Americans? If there were a college for “Caucasians” it would be sued for everything it was worth (and more) for discrimination. Double Standards. Just to be clear, I would rather our entire world see no COLOR. I am the most open-minded person you will ever meet. If you are reading this, then you know me. Since you know me, you completely agree that I am the first person to advocate equality for ALL. All I am saying is… Is our nation built on strength and equality or hatred and double standards? It is sad that the latter one is all that I see, even with my young generation.

  While we are speaking of HATE and double standards, let’s talk about this recent presidential election. I have never in my life seen such negative, disrespectful people until after OBAMA won the election for his second term. Friends were insulting friends. Families were being torn apart. Our country seemed to be at war with itself. The stock market plummeted. Silly Americans, don’t you know that were are only harming ourselves when we react in such a way? I just don’t understand. One American actually had the audacity to hang his flag upside because he didn’t like that OBAMA won. (His words). If you don’t like the way this damn country is run, then get the heck out of it! I bet you would be back after a week. Can you believe that riots actually broke out on election night? It literally disgusts me to see people act so irrationally. Why not just keep your damn mouth shut and deal with it? The election was fairly won. You cannot change a damn thing now. You did your part- you voted. If you didn’t vote, then please keep your mouth shut. You have no right to bash anyone or voice your opinion on something that you didn’t take part in. All that we can do now is move forward. Make changes starting with you! When you start to become a better person it will be contagious to those around you. Next, move onto your household and family. Then together you can reach out to your community, your city, and your state. If we all did this, then and only then, we could improve as a country. A president can only do so much. He cannot snap his fingers and make everything perfect. The changes that he does try to imply get denied and bashed regardless of if they affect you or not. For you ignorant folks out there- our president is not the only one with a say in what laws are passed and how things are done. There are MANY others that every law and idea has to be approved by. I would say the only thing that our president can do without needing approval from an entire council is reach out to those that are in need. Which I must throw in, I don’t EVER recall BUSH doing. Obama has personally visited the victims and families of the Colorado Movie Theater Shooting, those affected by Hurricane Sandy, as well as the families/town of the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting. To those of you who actually struggle or even middle class: Would you rather have a “business man” in office or an empathetic man in office? Really think about that. Back to my point: If you want change, make it yourself!

  In the wake of the Sandy Hook Elementary School tragic shooting, I have to say… Do we care more about our right to bare arms than the safety of our loved ones? Maybe sacrificing this freedom would save lives. You can argue all day long about having the right to protect ourselves by owning a gun, BUT just for a second actually think this one through: What if the average person weren’t allowed to own guns? What if the ONLY guns that existed were those in the possession of state and government officials? The homicide rate would decrease dramatically. I bet it would decrease by a good 80%. You wouldn’t need to be armed with a gun to protect yourself from someone without a gun. How WOULD you protect yourself you might ask? There are other weapons out there: knives, Tasers, etc. There are classes you can actually take to protect yourself. Any other weapon that we could possibly own would make it nearly impossible for one individual to successfully execute someone, much less a group of people. The weak and innocent would no longer be targets because you can run from a knife; you can survive a knife wound. It is very rare for an individual to survive a gunshot; most survivors, and there are not many, have some sort of physical trauma after being shot. If guns were made illegal for an average citizen to possess then our beloved brothers and sisters would actually have a chance at a life! We would have an opportunity to watch our children grow up and build lives on their own. Get rid of your views for a second. Take a step away from your closed-mindedness and really think: What is more important- your right to bare arms or your children’s safety? What is more important your opinions or love? Would you want to risk losing your life or your loved ones life, rather than give up your guns? It is sick, how many people don’t look at this situation in this way. People actually want to arm MORE people! People are actually talking about arming TEACHERS! Really? So they can have a bad day at work and shoot anyone that rubs them the wrong way? After this tragedy, after losing 27 beautiful souls, 20 of them being innocent children, are you still not willing to give in? What else needs to happen for you to open your eyes and your minds? This is one of the biggest tragedies in our nations history. It shouldn’t be possible for ONE person to take the 27 lives within minutes. Remember this: Giving in doesn’t mean you are giving up. It means you are strong enough to do the right thing.

Well that is all that I have for now. I am out of school for a few weeks, so I may be ranting again soon. Give and receive LOVE & Be Blessed.